The device is called an air maze, or oil maze. It needs to be pretty big, so the air velocity will be low. The oil will condense into the copper wool or whatever and slowly drip out the bottom so it can return to the crankcase. Some have a separate drain line, but if you ran a 3/4" hose straight up from the existing vent into the maze, the condensed oil would run straight back down the sides of the hose returning to the sump.
The line from the maze to the intake can be smaller, but needs to be a steady upward slope so any additional oil to condense out can flow back to the crankcase too. It should enter the intake manifold at the lowest possible point so there is no chance that oil might puddle in the intake manifold.
That should create a minimal crankcase vacuum, and keep oil from slobbering out, yet not suck in dust to increase wear.