Hi Jens,
I've been looking for this information on this site and others for over a year now. I've tried contacting a half dozen members that have something like this setup and got fantastic help from a couple of them. A couple probably didn't get my emails or requests similar to yours here.
Carl, a member of LEF, has a great system in New Jersey, is really helpful and has a web site but hasn't gone to the step where he grid ties the Lister generated power. I believe his recommendation is much like Tom’s only he suggested looking at DC generator heads.
Outback has a neat but not cheap inverter that has a few batteries that can be charged via a engine powered generator and excess power goes to the grid – if I understand their website correctly.
Please help Jens.
Your selfless associate,
LowGear