Dear Evil, (just had to open the reply this way
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The items you're trying to power seem like good candidates for home-rolled electricity. The only exception might be your video equipment but, who knows, it might be just fine.
As others have said, the applicances you absolutely must avoid are electric stoves/ranges, hot water heaters, clothes dryers, dish washers and space heaters. Next comes coffee pots and big (> 1000watt) microwave ovens.
Here's a WAG at the power consumption for the items you mentioned.
2 Deep Freezers: Intermittent load: About 400 W total
1 refrigerator: Intermittent load: About 200 W
4 tvs and cable boxes: Intermittent load: About 500 W total
4 video players: Intermettent load: About 300 W total
2 computers, monitors, misc periph: Continuous load: About 400 W total
1 salt water aquarium: Continuous load: About 200 W.
Home lighting: Intermittent Load: About 600 W (lot of variability here).
Total: 2600 Watts.
For these items, the demand load will probably be less than this as, the refrigerators and freezers cycle on/off.
There are other things you need to consider such as your furnace and washing machine etc. My guess, is that you're a good candidate for solar/battery/generator power for many (but not all) of your electrical needs. Generally speaking, you have solar panels that charge batteries. The batteries drive an inverter which supplies electricity to a few of the most common circuits in your house. The engine/generator is used to charge the batteries on cloudy days.
Keep in-mind, the energy from a diesel generator will almost certainly cost more per kwh than what the power company charges for it. There's also a fair amount of maintenance involved in generating your own power. Plan on spending an average of 20 minutes a day for the care/feeding of your diesel genset...
I'm not trying to discourage you but, be forewarned, this is a labor of love, more than anything else.
Regards
Ray