Your breaker panel should be a double pole, break before make, change over switch of the mains rating, so that you can change safely from either grid input or generator input with no chance of both at the same time, or of feeding mains into your genset (genset may not like that), or genset output into the grid (linesmen do not like that
).
Not an electrician, so not sure of your earthing requirements.
If your mains fuse is less than your genset max current you would need a similar fuse or breaker on your genset side so you do not overload any circuit (from your change over switch, and wiring to your consumer unit).
There may be other regs to follow as well.
You can use as much power as your mains supplies, in any of the circuits serviced (up to their individual rating). Any extra to that may need increased wire cross sectional area for safety.
Hope this helps for starters.
Regards, RAB